get physical

world building with the senses

Start creating the sensual environment in your home and in your life - the fragrances, the lighting, the sheets, the cleanliness, the foods, the flowers, the arrangements, the art, the clothes, the adornments, the textures, the touches, the details, the music, the dates, the little rituals and practices - that make the next version of you that you want to become inevitable.

Create the ambience that makes it inevitable to become something one inch closer to your dream life. We severely overglorify the cerebral and pathetically underestimate the sensorial. Cultivate the environment in which you would go from a tight little bud of potential to a fragrant, decadent rose in biggest, sluttiest bloom.

Shift from constantly imagining transformation to muddying your fingers in the fuckery that is alchemy. Pull yourself out of the etheric dreamworld of ‘manifestation’ and instead plant things in the damp soil of embodiment. Get dirt in your nails. Live a day like the Goddess is watching you. Touch things and let them touch you back. Your dream life isn’t fixed anyway. It’s ever evolving, unfolding, revealing itself in new flavours to you. Texture by texture, thought by thought, desire by desire.

Descend into the tangible, the physical. Write by hand. Cook your own food for a week. Pay deep attention to what clothes feel the best on your skin. Do the manual labour of building a beautiful, delectable existence around yourself. Prioritise pleasure like it’s your religion, not a reward for self-flagellation. Light candles. Give yourself exposure therapy to rejection, embarrassment, decadence, cringe. Create the world in which who you want to create out of yourself lives. Adorn and embellish and style and seduce it into being. <3